Creativity often comes with confusion. So much of being creative is a cultivation of play, but for a wandering mind, play itself can throw us into multiple directions.

What about this? How about that? I’ll try this… Wait, where was I? Wait, what do I do next?

Wandering minds excel at building, improvising, connecting unlikely dots. But that creativity often explodes in all directions, leading to overwhelm. The very playfulness that fuels invention can also bring decision overload—leaving us collapsed in uncertainty, our energy scattered across a thousand “what ifs.”

It’s all to easy to give up.

But when we can hold on to the fog of confusion, we often start finding a way forward, sometimes even with a sense of deeper meaning and mastery with the work.

Between spark and mastery, the storms of confusion are regularly found.

How Creativity Grows in the Messy Middle

My own writing process is messy. Organizing notes, rearranging chapters, screaming internally (sometimes externally)—it’s all part of holding confusion. As I sit with the sensations, resting my mind within, sometimes patterns emerge.

Mastery isn’t about having all the answers, but more often in staying with the questions.

Anchoring in Daily Rhythms

So, how do we find clarity amid the creative storm?

  • Be with the confusion: Feel it. Point at it. Where is the disconnect? Sometimes, just pointing to the foggy patch helps you find a path through.
  • Consider being with your work daily: The Daily Visit (episode 4 of the Rhythms of Focus) can lead to a powerful harnessing of a primal cycle. Short, frequent creative sessions allow confusion to “settle” and your unconscious mind to puzzle out solutions between. Over time, this rhythm supports both emotional resilience and emerging insight.
  • Pause for play: Notice when creativity tips into overwhelm. Sometimes, a gentle pause—restores the sense of safety and possibility.

Mastery grows, not by banishing confusion, but by sitting with it—turning uncertainty into a deeper connection with your work, and ultimately, with yourself.

  • Kourosh

PS For an extended discussion of today’s newsletter, check out episode 19 of the Rhythms of Focus.

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